An average looking female can get alot of attention from men by doing things like wearing certain clothes (short skirt, low-rise jeans, etc) along with actions like smiling at you. We all know this. The question is, what is the equivalent for men ? What can men do to attract women with the same predictability ?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to get alot of attention from women ?
- Thread starter BigFoot
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Leather butt-less pants. Works for me every time.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Lol, I mean if you really wanna go into that direction the answer to your question is actually very simple: $$$$$$$ !BigFoot said:
They show they got skin, you show you got Benjamins, fair isn't it?
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You don't need money for butt-less pants. Just a pair of scissors. Show'em the cheeks and they'll bang ya for weeks, that's what my pappy always said.
Kev07
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actually i just realized, when i went costume shopping with one of my friends( shes pretty cute, i wouldn't say shes aLL that though) i have the conversation all good, i consider myself a funny guy.
but this girl just recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she was going kino crazy on me(leaning on me, pats on shoulder arm, w/e, linking arms out of nowhere, yeah that kinda stuff), and wow did that spice everything up =]
as for what men can do, i really don't nkow appearance wise, but personality, i'd have to say funny and is somewhat center of attention.
but this girl just recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she was going kino crazy on me(leaning on me, pats on shoulder arm, w/e, linking arms out of nowhere, yeah that kinda stuff), and wow did that spice everything up =]
as for what men can do, i really don't nkow appearance wise, but personality, i'd have to say funny and is somewhat center of attention.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Scrumtulescence said:
Well what about the low-riders with the butt-crack hanging out?:moon:
Show her your crack and she'll bang you right back.
edmond
Senior Don Juan
You must
You must play them at their own game, look after your own body, showered, nails manicured, no dandruff, etc… always dress well, including polished shoes, when you step outside as you never know who you will meet, avoid smoking as it will make your mouth stink, walk like the King of the jungle, these are only some tips.
That is just the basics and if watch the other men in the street, you will see that 98% of the men do not even bother with the above.
You must play them at their own game, look after your own body, showered, nails manicured, no dandruff, etc… always dress well, including polished shoes, when you step outside as you never know who you will meet, avoid smoking as it will make your mouth stink, walk like the King of the jungle, these are only some tips.
That is just the basics and if watch the other men in the street, you will see that 98% of the men do not even bother with the above.
It sounds like I didn't phrase the question well.
Women can use the visual techniques I described.
What can men do to achieve a similar interest level from women? It is not
going to be by dressing provocatively like women - it has to be other
things, maybe a style of dress, certain behavior , maybe money as
The guy from Paris says. Or is it just looks ?
Women can use the visual techniques I described.
What can men do to achieve a similar interest level from women? It is not
going to be by dressing provocatively like women - it has to be other
things, maybe a style of dress, certain behavior , maybe money as
The guy from Paris says. Or is it just looks ?