An average looking female can get alot of attention from men by doing things like wearing certain clothes (short skirt, low-rise jeans, etc) along with actions like smiling at you. We all know this. The question is, what is the equivalent for men ? What can men do to attract women with the same predictability ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to get alot of attention from women ?
- Thread starter BigFoot
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Leather butt-less pants. Works for me every time.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Lol, I mean if you really wanna go into that direction the answer to your question is actually very simple: $$$$$$$ !BigFoot said:
They show they got skin, you show you got Benjamins, fair isn't it?
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You don't need money for butt-less pants. Just a pair of scissors. Show'em the cheeks and they'll bang ya for weeks, that's what my pappy always said.
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actually i just realized, when i went costume shopping with one of my friends( shes pretty cute, i wouldn't say shes aLL that though) i have the conversation all good, i consider myself a funny guy.
but this girl just recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she was going kino crazy on me(leaning on me, pats on shoulder arm, w/e, linking arms out of nowhere, yeah that kinda stuff), and wow did that spice everything up =]
as for what men can do, i really don't nkow appearance wise, but personality, i'd have to say funny and is somewhat center of attention.
but this girl just recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she was going kino crazy on me(leaning on me, pats on shoulder arm, w/e, linking arms out of nowhere, yeah that kinda stuff), and wow did that spice everything up =]
as for what men can do, i really don't nkow appearance wise, but personality, i'd have to say funny and is somewhat center of attention.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Scrumtulescence said:
Well what about the low-riders with the butt-crack hanging out?:moon:
Show her your crack and she'll bang you right back.
edmond
Senior Don Juan
You must
You must play them at their own game, look after your own body, showered, nails manicured, no dandruff, etc… always dress well, including polished shoes, when you step outside as you never know who you will meet, avoid smoking as it will make your mouth stink, walk like the King of the jungle, these are only some tips.
That is just the basics and if watch the other men in the street, you will see that 98% of the men do not even bother with the above.
You must play them at their own game, look after your own body, showered, nails manicured, no dandruff, etc… always dress well, including polished shoes, when you step outside as you never know who you will meet, avoid smoking as it will make your mouth stink, walk like the King of the jungle, these are only some tips.
That is just the basics and if watch the other men in the street, you will see that 98% of the men do not even bother with the above.
It sounds like I didn't phrase the question well.
Women can use the visual techniques I described.
What can men do to achieve a similar interest level from women? It is not
going to be by dressing provocatively like women - it has to be other
things, maybe a style of dress, certain behavior , maybe money as
The guy from Paris says. Or is it just looks ?
Women can use the visual techniques I described.
What can men do to achieve a similar interest level from women? It is not
going to be by dressing provocatively like women - it has to be other
things, maybe a style of dress, certain behavior , maybe money as
The guy from Paris says. Or is it just looks ?