An average looking female can get alot of attention from men by doing things like wearing certain clothes (short skirt, low-rise jeans, etc) along with actions like smiling at you. We all know this. The question is, what is the equivalent for men ? What can men do to attract women with the same predictability ?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to get alot of attention from women ?
- Thread starter BigFoot
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Leather butt-less pants. Works for me every time.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Lol, I mean if you really wanna go into that direction the answer to your question is actually very simple: $$$$$$$ !BigFoot said:
They show they got skin, you show you got Benjamins, fair isn't it?
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You don't need money for butt-less pants. Just a pair of scissors. Show'em the cheeks and they'll bang ya for weeks, that's what my pappy always said.
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actually i just realized, when i went costume shopping with one of my friends( shes pretty cute, i wouldn't say shes aLL that though) i have the conversation all good, i consider myself a funny guy.
but this girl just recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she was going kino crazy on me(leaning on me, pats on shoulder arm, w/e, linking arms out of nowhere, yeah that kinda stuff), and wow did that spice everything up =]
as for what men can do, i really don't nkow appearance wise, but personality, i'd have to say funny and is somewhat center of attention.
but this girl just recently broke up with her boyfriend, and she was going kino crazy on me(leaning on me, pats on shoulder arm, w/e, linking arms out of nowhere, yeah that kinda stuff), and wow did that spice everything up =]
as for what men can do, i really don't nkow appearance wise, but personality, i'd have to say funny and is somewhat center of attention.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Scrumtulescence said:
Well what about the low-riders with the butt-crack hanging out?:moon:
Show her your crack and she'll bang you right back.
edmond
Senior Don Juan
You must
You must play them at their own game, look after your own body, showered, nails manicured, no dandruff, etc… always dress well, including polished shoes, when you step outside as you never know who you will meet, avoid smoking as it will make your mouth stink, walk like the King of the jungle, these are only some tips.
That is just the basics and if watch the other men in the street, you will see that 98% of the men do not even bother with the above.
You must play them at their own game, look after your own body, showered, nails manicured, no dandruff, etc… always dress well, including polished shoes, when you step outside as you never know who you will meet, avoid smoking as it will make your mouth stink, walk like the King of the jungle, these are only some tips.
That is just the basics and if watch the other men in the street, you will see that 98% of the men do not even bother with the above.
It sounds like I didn't phrase the question well.
Women can use the visual techniques I described.
What can men do to achieve a similar interest level from women? It is not
going to be by dressing provocatively like women - it has to be other
things, maybe a style of dress, certain behavior , maybe money as
The guy from Paris says. Or is it just looks ?
Women can use the visual techniques I described.
What can men do to achieve a similar interest level from women? It is not
going to be by dressing provocatively like women - it has to be other
things, maybe a style of dress, certain behavior , maybe money as
The guy from Paris says. Or is it just looks ?