Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
if u cant take her as she is and b satisfied u need to next this relationship...lets say she losses weight..unless she really wants to she'll just gain it all back
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How to get a girl to loose some weight?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
QFT +repIamJosan said:
The girl I'm currently exclusive with told me that she used to be chubby in the past. Right now she's nice and slim. I tell her (usually after we've fucked) that I love her body the way it is. She asks me what if she were to become chubby again. I tell her that I only like pretty, slim women and that is the reason she's in my bed with me.
She gets my point.
If you don't like fat girls, don't date them to begin with. A smart girl who is in love will keep slim if she knows her man will leave if she becomes fat. They let themselves become fat when the know the guy doesn't have any options.
When you guys go out for dinner, order a salad or something light, (chicken will be your best friend) and then she'll probably order the same thing. Avoid fast food restaurants with her, and go for hikes/walks or since summer is coming check out if theres any bike tours in the area or canoe down the rivers.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
If she doesn't respect her own body enough to look after it then how is she suppose to respect you. My two cents worth.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.