Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
if u cant take her as she is and b satisfied u need to next this relationship...lets say she losses weight..unless she really wants to she'll just gain it all back
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to get a girl to loose some weight?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
QFT +repIamJosan said:
The girl I'm currently exclusive with told me that she used to be chubby in the past. Right now she's nice and slim. I tell her (usually after we've fucked) that I love her body the way it is. She asks me what if she were to become chubby again. I tell her that I only like pretty, slim women and that is the reason she's in my bed with me.
She gets my point.
If you don't like fat girls, don't date them to begin with. A smart girl who is in love will keep slim if she knows her man will leave if she becomes fat. They let themselves become fat when the know the guy doesn't have any options.
When you guys go out for dinner, order a salad or something light, (chicken will be your best friend) and then she'll probably order the same thing. Avoid fast food restaurants with her, and go for hikes/walks or since summer is coming check out if theres any bike tours in the area or canoe down the rivers.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
If she doesn't respect her own body enough to look after it then how is she suppose to respect you. My two cents worth.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.