"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get a girl to hookup?

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Met a girl off POF tonight. Not that interested in dating her to be honest, we didn't have a connection though it wasn't a bad night and she seems like a cool person. Face is meh, but she does have a nice body. All things considered, this definitely seems like someone I would love to fvck but not date.

I was the first person she met off the site, she said she was talking to some other dude who invited her over to house for the first meetup because his car wasn't working blah blah (excuse obviously, he just wanted to hookup). She said that creeped her out because she hadn't even met him yet, and added "if he was just looking for a hookup then just tell me".

So that got me thinking, should I straight up tell her like "hey you wanna hookup?" like she said she 'wanted' the guy to be up front and open about it or should I just do what the other did and invite her over for drinks? I do have the benefit of actually meeting her in person, she has me on FB etc. so the creepy stranger off the internet factor is removed. Also I am getting my new place in a few weeks so I can guise a visit as "checking out my new place" potentially rather than "come over for a hookup?" How do you approach this kind of scenario? Up front or just invite them over and a hookup is somewhat implied?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol bro

seriously?

that sounds like an easy way to do things but the success rate is gonna be low if you just nonchalantly just say "hey wanna hookup?"

just meet her somewhere for drinks, then take her back to your place and **** her.

sure it takes a little more effort, and a little driving, but the odds of you ****ing her doing it that way so much better they are worth the minimal effort it takes to drive out to get drinks.
 
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Okay perfect. My new place is only a 10 minute walk away from a bunch of bars anyways so ya you're right that's a good plan to get her out near my apartment without making her feel slutty.
 
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"hey wanna hook up?" Does that make sense to you to ask her that off the bat?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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