"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to get a girl to hookup?

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SoSerene

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Met a girl off POF tonight. Not that interested in dating her to be honest, we didn't have a connection though it wasn't a bad night and she seems like a cool person. Face is meh, but she does have a nice body. All things considered, this definitely seems like someone I would love to fvck but not date.

I was the first person she met off the site, she said she was talking to some other dude who invited her over to house for the first meetup because his car wasn't working blah blah (excuse obviously, he just wanted to hookup). She said that creeped her out because she hadn't even met him yet, and added "if he was just looking for a hookup then just tell me".

So that got me thinking, should I straight up tell her like "hey you wanna hookup?" like she said she 'wanted' the guy to be up front and open about it or should I just do what the other did and invite her over for drinks? I do have the benefit of actually meeting her in person, she has me on FB etc. so the creepy stranger off the internet factor is removed. Also I am getting my new place in a few weeks so I can guise a visit as "checking out my new place" potentially rather than "come over for a hookup?" How do you approach this kind of scenario? Up front or just invite them over and a hookup is somewhat implied?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol bro

seriously?

that sounds like an easy way to do things but the success rate is gonna be low if you just nonchalantly just say "hey wanna hookup?"

just meet her somewhere for drinks, then take her back to your place and **** her.

sure it takes a little more effort, and a little driving, but the odds of you ****ing her doing it that way so much better they are worth the minimal effort it takes to drive out to get drinks.
 
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Okay perfect. My new place is only a 10 minute walk away from a bunch of bars anyways so ya you're right that's a good plan to get her out near my apartment without making her feel slutty.
 
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"hey wanna hook up?" Does that make sense to you to ask her that off the bat?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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