"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to get a girl to hookup?

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Met a girl off POF tonight. Not that interested in dating her to be honest, we didn't have a connection though it wasn't a bad night and she seems like a cool person. Face is meh, but she does have a nice body. All things considered, this definitely seems like someone I would love to fvck but not date.

I was the first person she met off the site, she said she was talking to some other dude who invited her over to house for the first meetup because his car wasn't working blah blah (excuse obviously, he just wanted to hookup). She said that creeped her out because she hadn't even met him yet, and added "if he was just looking for a hookup then just tell me".

So that got me thinking, should I straight up tell her like "hey you wanna hookup?" like she said she 'wanted' the guy to be up front and open about it or should I just do what the other did and invite her over for drinks? I do have the benefit of actually meeting her in person, she has me on FB etc. so the creepy stranger off the internet factor is removed. Also I am getting my new place in a few weeks so I can guise a visit as "checking out my new place" potentially rather than "come over for a hookup?" How do you approach this kind of scenario? Up front or just invite them over and a hookup is somewhat implied?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol bro

seriously?

that sounds like an easy way to do things but the success rate is gonna be low if you just nonchalantly just say "hey wanna hookup?"

just meet her somewhere for drinks, then take her back to your place and **** her.

sure it takes a little more effort, and a little driving, but the odds of you ****ing her doing it that way so much better they are worth the minimal effort it takes to drive out to get drinks.
 
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Okay perfect. My new place is only a 10 minute walk away from a bunch of bars anyways so ya you're right that's a good plan to get her out near my apartment without making her feel slutty.
 
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"hey wanna hook up?" Does that make sense to you to ask her that off the bat?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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