"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to get a # from a girl in my class?

bballkilla

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before you ask, i already read the DJ bible and i didnt get the answers i needed

anyways, theres this girl in my class and i want to get her # by the time school lets out in about a month. its different from doin a # close because i see her everyday and i dont have to get her in just one day

so can someone give me a plan or some tips on how i can go about casually gettin her number by the end of the year? i wanna try to get somethin started over the summer.

i always see all these other guys with girls always textin them and whatnot, but i'm not really good at actually gettin a girls number from school
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Start a conversation with her and just ask for her number. Its not rocket science. If she says no, than shes not interested. If she says yes, than good for you!
 

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so u walk up to her smoothly n be like, hey baby, wuts yo number, give it to me n we can do a lil bit of lovin
 

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Never ASK her for your number. Strike up a conversation, get to know her better, use a BIT of ****y/funny humour with her, and develop some good rapport for some introduction attraction.
As you guys are leaving to go your different paths (switching classes,going to lunch, etc) say something such as, "Do you have a number I can reach you at?" See, girls are so used to having guys go up to them and say "What is your number? Can I have your number? You are SO cute, write you number down, etc etc." (You get the point.)
By asking her whether she has a number you can reach her at, it is not obvious what you are trying to say to her. In most cases, she ask you to give her your number. DO NOT EVER GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER. My man, this is the best advice you will EVER get. If she asks you for her number, say something such as: Oh cmon girl! I don't hand out my number to every girl I meet. Write your number down for me, I'll only call you 1000 times a day!" (Make sure your tone of voice is very expressive, and that you emphasize the sarcasm in the second part of that ****y/funny statement. When she is writing her number down, when she is halfway done writing her number, say something such as, "Write your email/MSN along with that." She will just do it automatically, since she is already writing down her number. If she does not have it, you have an opportunity to use a ****y/Funny joke such as, "Do you have electricity!?!"
Keep it short and to the point, and when you get her number avoid striking up LONG conversations. Keep it 20-30 minutes longs, and be sure to only use it to plan for you and her to meet places where you would strike much more longer conversations.
Cheers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Touchout

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Sniper001 said:
Never ASK her for your number. Strike up a conversation, get to know her better, use a BIT of ****y/funny humour with her, and develop some good rapport for some introduction attraction.
As you guys are leaving to go your different paths (switching classes,going to lunch, etc) say something such as, "Do you have a number I can reach you at?" See, girls are so used to having guys go up to them and say "What is your number? Can I have your number? You are SO cute, write you number down, etc etc." (You get the point.)
By asking her whether she has a number you can reach her at, it is not obvious what you are trying to say to her. In most cases, she ask you to give her your number. DO NOT EVER GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER. My man, this is the best advice you will EVER get. If she asks you for her number, say something such as: Oh cmon girl! I don't hand out my number to every girl I meet. Write your number down for me, I'll only call you 1000 times a day!" (Make sure your tone of voice is very expressive, and that you emphasize the sarcasm in the second part of that ****y/funny statement. When she is writing her number down, when she is halfway done writing her number, say something such as, "Write your email/MSN along with that." She will just do it automatically, since she is already writing down her number. If she does not have it, you have an opportunity to use a ****y/Funny joke such as, "Do you have electricity!?!"
Keep it short and to the point, and when you get her number avoid striking up LONG conversations. Keep it 20-30 minutes longs, and be sure to only use it to plan for you and her to meet places where you would strike much more longer conversations.
Cheers.
Is this copied straight from David D? While this is somewhat correct...it's just general KBJ speculation. Once you start getting experience you will learn what works for you.


Anyway it's not really hard to get a girl's number from school, especially if you know her. If you've been playing it right the whole time you've known her, it doesn't matter how you ask for her number, she will be more than happy to give it to you.

A lot of my number closes come from the last few weeks of school. All you have to say is something like, "Hey, let's hang out sometime in the summer, give me your number." while your handing her your phone. I've NEVER gotten a no like this.
 
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