“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to get a # from a girl in my class?

bballkilla

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before you ask, i already read the DJ bible and i didnt get the answers i needed

anyways, theres this girl in my class and i want to get her # by the time school lets out in about a month. its different from doin a # close because i see her everyday and i dont have to get her in just one day

so can someone give me a plan or some tips on how i can go about casually gettin her number by the end of the year? i wanna try to get somethin started over the summer.

i always see all these other guys with girls always textin them and whatnot, but i'm not really good at actually gettin a girls number from school
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Start a conversation with her and just ask for her number. Its not rocket science. If she says no, than shes not interested. If she says yes, than good for you!
 

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so u walk up to her smoothly n be like, hey baby, wuts yo number, give it to me n we can do a lil bit of lovin
 

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Never ASK her for your number. Strike up a conversation, get to know her better, use a BIT of ****y/funny humour with her, and develop some good rapport for some introduction attraction.
As you guys are leaving to go your different paths (switching classes,going to lunch, etc) say something such as, "Do you have a number I can reach you at?" See, girls are so used to having guys go up to them and say "What is your number? Can I have your number? You are SO cute, write you number down, etc etc." (You get the point.)
By asking her whether she has a number you can reach her at, it is not obvious what you are trying to say to her. In most cases, she ask you to give her your number. DO NOT EVER GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER. My man, this is the best advice you will EVER get. If she asks you for her number, say something such as: Oh cmon girl! I don't hand out my number to every girl I meet. Write your number down for me, I'll only call you 1000 times a day!" (Make sure your tone of voice is very expressive, and that you emphasize the sarcasm in the second part of that ****y/funny statement. When she is writing her number down, when she is halfway done writing her number, say something such as, "Write your email/MSN along with that." She will just do it automatically, since she is already writing down her number. If she does not have it, you have an opportunity to use a ****y/Funny joke such as, "Do you have electricity!?!"
Keep it short and to the point, and when you get her number avoid striking up LONG conversations. Keep it 20-30 minutes longs, and be sure to only use it to plan for you and her to meet places where you would strike much more longer conversations.
Cheers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Touchout

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Sniper001 said:
Never ASK her for your number. Strike up a conversation, get to know her better, use a BIT of ****y/funny humour with her, and develop some good rapport for some introduction attraction.
As you guys are leaving to go your different paths (switching classes,going to lunch, etc) say something such as, "Do you have a number I can reach you at?" See, girls are so used to having guys go up to them and say "What is your number? Can I have your number? You are SO cute, write you number down, etc etc." (You get the point.)
By asking her whether she has a number you can reach her at, it is not obvious what you are trying to say to her. In most cases, she ask you to give her your number. DO NOT EVER GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER. My man, this is the best advice you will EVER get. If she asks you for her number, say something such as: Oh cmon girl! I don't hand out my number to every girl I meet. Write your number down for me, I'll only call you 1000 times a day!" (Make sure your tone of voice is very expressive, and that you emphasize the sarcasm in the second part of that ****y/funny statement. When she is writing her number down, when she is halfway done writing her number, say something such as, "Write your email/MSN along with that." She will just do it automatically, since she is already writing down her number. If she does not have it, you have an opportunity to use a ****y/Funny joke such as, "Do you have electricity!?!"
Keep it short and to the point, and when you get her number avoid striking up LONG conversations. Keep it 20-30 minutes longs, and be sure to only use it to plan for you and her to meet places where you would strike much more longer conversations.
Cheers.
Is this copied straight from David D? While this is somewhat correct...it's just general KBJ speculation. Once you start getting experience you will learn what works for you.


Anyway it's not really hard to get a girl's number from school, especially if you know her. If you've been playing it right the whole time you've known her, it doesn't matter how you ask for her number, she will be more than happy to give it to you.

A lot of my number closes come from the last few weeks of school. All you have to say is something like, "Hey, let's hang out sometime in the summer, give me your number." while your handing her your phone. I've NEVER gotten a no like this.
 
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