"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to get a # from a girl in my class?

bballkilla

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before you ask, i already read the DJ bible and i didnt get the answers i needed

anyways, theres this girl in my class and i want to get her # by the time school lets out in about a month. its different from doin a # close because i see her everyday and i dont have to get her in just one day

so can someone give me a plan or some tips on how i can go about casually gettin her number by the end of the year? i wanna try to get somethin started over the summer.

i always see all these other guys with girls always textin them and whatnot, but i'm not really good at actually gettin a girls number from school
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Start a conversation with her and just ask for her number. Its not rocket science. If she says no, than shes not interested. If she says yes, than good for you!
 

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so u walk up to her smoothly n be like, hey baby, wuts yo number, give it to me n we can do a lil bit of lovin
 

Axcell

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Never ASK her for your number. Strike up a conversation, get to know her better, use a BIT of ****y/funny humour with her, and develop some good rapport for some introduction attraction.
As you guys are leaving to go your different paths (switching classes,going to lunch, etc) say something such as, "Do you have a number I can reach you at?" See, girls are so used to having guys go up to them and say "What is your number? Can I have your number? You are SO cute, write you number down, etc etc." (You get the point.)
By asking her whether she has a number you can reach her at, it is not obvious what you are trying to say to her. In most cases, she ask you to give her your number. DO NOT EVER GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER. My man, this is the best advice you will EVER get. If she asks you for her number, say something such as: Oh cmon girl! I don't hand out my number to every girl I meet. Write your number down for me, I'll only call you 1000 times a day!" (Make sure your tone of voice is very expressive, and that you emphasize the sarcasm in the second part of that ****y/funny statement. When she is writing her number down, when she is halfway done writing her number, say something such as, "Write your email/MSN along with that." She will just do it automatically, since she is already writing down her number. If she does not have it, you have an opportunity to use a ****y/Funny joke such as, "Do you have electricity!?!"
Keep it short and to the point, and when you get her number avoid striking up LONG conversations. Keep it 20-30 minutes longs, and be sure to only use it to plan for you and her to meet places where you would strike much more longer conversations.
Cheers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Touchout

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Sniper001 said:
Never ASK her for your number. Strike up a conversation, get to know her better, use a BIT of ****y/funny humour with her, and develop some good rapport for some introduction attraction.
As you guys are leaving to go your different paths (switching classes,going to lunch, etc) say something such as, "Do you have a number I can reach you at?" See, girls are so used to having guys go up to them and say "What is your number? Can I have your number? You are SO cute, write you number down, etc etc." (You get the point.)
By asking her whether she has a number you can reach her at, it is not obvious what you are trying to say to her. In most cases, she ask you to give her your number. DO NOT EVER GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER. My man, this is the best advice you will EVER get. If she asks you for her number, say something such as: Oh cmon girl! I don't hand out my number to every girl I meet. Write your number down for me, I'll only call you 1000 times a day!" (Make sure your tone of voice is very expressive, and that you emphasize the sarcasm in the second part of that ****y/funny statement. When she is writing her number down, when she is halfway done writing her number, say something such as, "Write your email/MSN along with that." She will just do it automatically, since she is already writing down her number. If she does not have it, you have an opportunity to use a ****y/Funny joke such as, "Do you have electricity!?!"
Keep it short and to the point, and when you get her number avoid striking up LONG conversations. Keep it 20-30 minutes longs, and be sure to only use it to plan for you and her to meet places where you would strike much more longer conversations.
Cheers.
Is this copied straight from David D? While this is somewhat correct...it's just general KBJ speculation. Once you start getting experience you will learn what works for you.


Anyway it's not really hard to get a girl's number from school, especially if you know her. If you've been playing it right the whole time you've known her, it doesn't matter how you ask for her number, she will be more than happy to give it to you.

A lot of my number closes come from the last few weeks of school. All you have to say is something like, "Hey, let's hang out sometime in the summer, give me your number." while your handing her your phone. I've NEVER gotten a no like this.
 
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