"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If she already likes you, then you can do just about anything you want without fear of her rejecting you.
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Eph said:
I agree with everything except:
Tease her and have fun yes! But don't use those "teases" as they would be taken up as insults unless properly delivered.Eph said:
Just wanted to add my .02
Apoco
How so? In my experience girls don't seem to take them as insults. I mean unless you just look completely serious, I don't see how they could be taken as insults. And if your having fun you'll be smiling or laughing, so there isn't much chance for having a serious face.apocolipto said:I agree with everything except:
Tease her and have fun yes! But don't use those "teases" as they would be taken up as insults unless properly delivered.
Just wanted to add my .02
Apoco
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
apocolipto
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- Joined
- May 14, 2012
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You literaly repeated what I said bro:Eph said:
Apocolipto said: