She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Eph said:You game younger chicks the same way you game any chick. If she's younger you should already have the "I'm the prize" mindset (you should have it already but it should come naturally with someone younger if you don't). She's younger so tease her about it. Tease her about how she acts like a little kid, is immature, etc. Just have fun, and allow her to be a part of it.
If she already likes you, then you can do just about anything you want without fear of her rejecting you.
Tease her and have fun yes! But don't use those "teases" as they would be taken up as insults unless properly delivered.Eph said:Tease her about how she acts like a little kid, is immature.
How so? In my experience girls don't seem to take them as insults. I mean unless you just look completely serious, I don't see how they could be taken as insults. And if your having fun you'll be smiling or laughing, so there isn't much chance for having a serious face.apocolipto said:I agree with everything except:
Tease her and have fun yes! But don't use those "teases" as they would be taken up as insults unless properly delivered.
Just wanted to add my .02
Apoco
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You literaly repeated what I said bro:Eph said:How so? In my experience girls don't seem to take them as insults. I mean unless you just look completely serious, I don't see how they could be taken as insults. And if your having fun you'll be smiling or laughing, so there isn't much chance for having a serious face.
Apocolipto said:unless properly delivered