"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to game with younger chicks?

JBozz

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There is this younger girl I would like to get with but she's a goodie goodie younger girl kinda immature, she tries to flirt with me and shes said shes loves me a couple of times. She kind of confuses me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eph

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You game younger chicks the same way you game any chick. If she's younger you should already have the "I'm the prize" mindset (you should have it already but it should come naturally with someone younger if you don't). She's younger so tease her about it. Tease her about how she acts like a little kid, is immature, etc. Just have fun, and allow her to be a part of it.

If she already likes you, then you can do just about anything you want without fear of her rejecting you.
 

apocolipto

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Eph said:
You game younger chicks the same way you game any chick. If she's younger you should already have the "I'm the prize" mindset (you should have it already but it should come naturally with someone younger if you don't). She's younger so tease her about it. Tease her about how she acts like a little kid, is immature, etc. Just have fun, and allow her to be a part of it.

If she already likes you, then you can do just about anything you want without fear of her rejecting you.

I agree with everything except:

Eph said:
Tease her about how she acts like a little kid, is immature.
Tease her and have fun yes! But don't use those "teases" as they would be taken up as insults unless properly delivered.

Just wanted to add my .02 :)

Apoco
 

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apocolipto said:
I agree with everything except:



Tease her and have fun yes! But don't use those "teases" as they would be taken up as insults unless properly delivered.

Just wanted to add my .02 :)

Apoco
How so? In my experience girls don't seem to take them as insults. I mean unless you just look completely serious, I don't see how they could be taken as insults. And if your having fun you'll be smiling or laughing, so there isn't much chance for having a serious face.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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apocolipto

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Eph said:
How so? In my experience girls don't seem to take them as insults. I mean unless you just look completely serious, I don't see how they could be taken as insults. And if your having fun you'll be smiling or laughing, so there isn't much chance for having a serious face.
You literaly repeated what I said bro:

Apocolipto said:
unless properly delivered
 
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