Can you guys give me a breakdown of how to game shy and quiet girls? I assume it's a bit different than with outgoing girls. Basically there's this quiet girl I think is attracted to me. I've been taking it easy, just a bit of flirting and kino (the kino started the minute I met her, I held her hand while I was being introduced to her). Haven't gotten her number yet, I would have tried but there was too many obstacles that night. I'll see her again in the next 3-4 days I'm sure, so help me out here.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to game shy and quiet girls?
- Thread starter Scion
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Make them laugh, don't be put off if they respond with short answers to questions / break conversation flow, you be the chatterbox. One thing that great about shy girls is that you can just mentally assume their quietness is quite attentive feminine attraction.
