Can you guys give me a breakdown of how to game shy and quiet girls? I assume it's a bit different than with outgoing girls. Basically there's this quiet girl I think is attracted to me. I've been taking it easy, just a bit of flirting and kino (the kino started the minute I met her, I held her hand while I was being introduced to her). Haven't gotten her number yet, I would have tried but there was too many obstacles that night. I'll see her again in the next 3-4 days I'm sure, so help me out here.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to game shy and quiet girls?
- Thread starter Scion
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Make them laugh, don't be put off if they respond with short answers to questions / break conversation flow, you be the chatterbox. One thing that great about shy girls is that you can just mentally assume their quietness is quite attentive feminine attraction.
