Can you guys give me a breakdown of how to game shy and quiet girls? I assume it's a bit different than with outgoing girls. Basically there's this quiet girl I think is attracted to me. I've been taking it easy, just a bit of flirting and kino (the kino started the minute I met her, I held her hand while I was being introduced to her). Haven't gotten her number yet, I would have tried but there was too many obstacles that night. I'll see her again in the next 3-4 days I'm sure, so help me out here.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to game shy and quiet girls?
- Thread starter Scion
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Make them laugh, don't be put off if they respond with short answers to questions / break conversation flow, you be the chatterbox. One thing that great about shy girls is that you can just mentally assume their quietness is quite attentive feminine attraction.
