Can you guys give me a breakdown of how to game shy and quiet girls? I assume it's a bit different than with outgoing girls. Basically there's this quiet girl I think is attracted to me. I've been taking it easy, just a bit of flirting and kino (the kino started the minute I met her, I held her hand while I was being introduced to her). Haven't gotten her number yet, I would have tried but there was too many obstacles that night. I'll see her again in the next 3-4 days I'm sure, so help me out here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to game shy and quiet girls?
- Thread starter Scion
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Make them laugh, don't be put off if they respond with short answers to questions / break conversation flow, you be the chatterbox. One thing that great about shy girls is that you can just mentally assume their quietness is quite attentive feminine attraction.
