"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to gain mass as a skinny guy

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I do train all parts of my body and try to increase intensity all the time.

I guess I'll try increasing my protein intake with shakes/eggs/ maybe nuts. I agree my breakfast is quite ... low. But under the week I don't have that much time to eat a lot before uni starts.

I don't really want to give up boxing, it just gives me way more in terms of the whole self-defense and psychological advantages. I also need at least some cardio, that gives me some energy.



What about other body parts like biceps, back, abs?

I don't have time usually for 4 meals. I'll def. try the shakes. How much are we talking about with one shake? One glass of 200ml or more?

I try to get 8h minimum of sleep.
It all depends on how calorie dense the shakes are. Look up on google mass gainer shake recipe. Or weight gainrr shake or bulking shake recipe.

And yes ofc u train biceps shoulders abs calves but the point is that the 3 excercises thatll helpp you pack on the most size are the big ones like squats, bench press, deadlifts, but also stuff like bent over rows and t bar rows, military presses and stuff. Just have fun with it
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You guys are going in circles.

Someone gains weight (fat or muscle) when they eat more calories than they burn.

The difference between gaining fat and gaining muscle is how your body is using the Calories. Any type of exercise will convert the Calories to muscle. Any LACK of exercise will be stored as Fat.

(Obviously not recommended but) you can get ripped, toned, and huge off just McDonald's, with very little fat ass long as you workout and eat at the surplus (more than you burn) necessary.

Except your body composition is composed of McDonald's, not the healthiest body composition.
 

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Hi Boosted Arrow,
One of the benefits of being old,and still living in a relatively small Town where you went to School,is that you see People play out their full lifes...You see the inevitability of outcomes based on inherited Cultures and Genetic backgrounds.....Accept that you are one of Pharoahs lean kind,and be grateful that you will probably make Old bones!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OP wants to gain weight. You prescribed a high rep, high volume workout with a low carb diet. Literally the opposite of what he should be doing.
I didn't give a low carb diet. The diet I gave is very high in calories (which believe it or not is required to put on weight).

Also, training to failure (or close to it) will build you the most muscle. You can get strong without getting big. Muscle is built by mechanical tension. That is measure by effective reps. Effective reps are the last five reps of a set taken to true failure and are involuntary slow as they’re using large threshold motor units. So training to failure is literally how to optimally build muscle. Getting stronger is something that will happen when training to failure over time as in order to maintain failure you’ll end up using more weight/reps to achieve it. Building the main lifts can help but that’s not the GO TO requirements of building muscle.

You can also build motor unit patterns without adding mass.
 
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It's simple, eat more. If you're currently having 2-3 meals a day and not gaining weight, try 4, 5 etc

You have to eat big, to get big (in addition to getting adequate rest and all the other stuff). This also means proper food - forgo the whey protein shakes and make sure you eat quality food instead.

Also maybe cut back on the cardio if you're doing a lot.
 

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Back in da dey you did GOMAD or added six cups of white rice (salt/water) to your already daily clean food intake.
 

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(Obviously not recommended but) you can get ripped, toned, and huge off just McDonald's, with very little fat ass long as you workout and eat at the surplus (more than you burn) necessary.

Except your body composition is composed of McDonald's, not the healthiest body composition.
Yes, McDonalds will be a lot of unnecessary fat.

I didn't give a low carb diet. The diet I gave is very high in calories (which believe it or not is required to put on weight).
Yes, you did. Very little carbs, way too much fat. He’s not going to gain weight eating Avacados. Needs to pack in the rice, beans, oats, and whole milk.
 

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Yes, you did. Very little carbs, way too much fat. He’s not going to gain weight eating Avacados. Needs to pack in the rice, beans, oats, and whole milk.
Avocados are more than a decent source of calories. I even mentioned rice in my post. It seems like you don't know what you're talking about and are just trying to be contrarian.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Avocados are more than a decent source of calories. I even mentioned rice in my post. It seems like you don't know what you're talking about and are just trying to be contrarian.
Avocados are fat calories. Fat calories are suboptimal for fueling workouts. No high performing athletes forgo carbohydrates to pack in fat calories. The diet plan you provided is high in protein and fat, and has insufficient carbohydrates. The macros are messed up.
 

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Avocados are fat calories. Fat calories are suboptimal for fueling workouts. No high performing athletes forgo carbohydrates to pack in fat calories. The diet plan you provided is high in protein and fat, and has insufficient carbohydrates. The macros are messed up.
As long as you feel good and have energy and are in a surplus with enough protein you’ll build muscle. It doesn’t have to be high fat it doesn’t have to be high carbs. All that matters is calories and protein (as long as basic micronutrient requirements are being met). High carbs bs high fat is purely subjective and will be catered towards each person respectively. There are 101 ways to skin a cat.

This is what has worked well for me for years.
 

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Avocados provide the Fat, Protein, and Carbohydrate macros.

So theoretically, Yes you absolutely can eat 3000 Calories of pure Avocado and workout, and if you're base Calorie Intake is 2000 (for example), you can get built, muscles toned and all.

Except that you're body composition is entirely composed of Avocado, which many can argue that isn't the healthiest. But you won't gain body fat if you're still working out. Built/Ripped doesn't always mean healthy.
 

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Man. It really is this simple. I don’t know where things got so complicated.
Because the question was "How to gain mass as a skinny guy" but people started talking about different exercises and reps lmao. The answer (in this case) was simply eat more.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is not subjective. The human body does not train effectively on a lower carb diet compared to a higher carb diet. This is not an opinion.
You speak of "effectively", but gains can be made whether you follow a low or high carb diet regardless. The primary factor to gaining mass is a Caloric Surplus, not high or low carbs.
 

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People with diabetes who cannot consume a a high carb diet (Carbs are Sugars) can definitely gain mass by lowering their Carb intake and supplementing the Caloric Surplus with Proteins/Fats.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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