"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to forget about a girl?

rjones

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About 2-3 years ago at school there was this girl that liked me alot but I didn't really care about her. We didn't talk alot but she did try to get my number once, I told her to give me hers and she said no so that pissed me off and I gave her a fake number. After that I felt a little regret but I went to a different school and stopped caring about her.

Two years later I go on facebook and I found her. I send her a message and she doesn't even remember me. The last few days I've been thinking about her all the time. Theres other hot girls that I could of got but I don't even think about them why am I obsessed with this one?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Holland

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Think about other things.
And remember, women are great, but they are to enhance life, not BE your life.
 

blackbelt2k

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take an 8th of shrooms w/ some ganga and alcholol...sit down in your room, and stare at her picture...when she leaps out and becomes a freakin troll monster trying to eat you... u'll forget her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mxylplk

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it's the regret over what if's. But you cannot take back the past. You did what you thought was best for YOU at the time.

You have to pursue your passion now. Be involved helping the poor or abused animals. What has always helped me was getting out there instead of sitting and ruminating and actually getting to know as many girls as I can, whether or not they're HB.
 
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