"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to forget about a girl?

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About 2-3 years ago at school there was this girl that liked me alot but I didn't really care about her. We didn't talk alot but she did try to get my number once, I told her to give me hers and she said no so that pissed me off and I gave her a fake number. After that I felt a little regret but I went to a different school and stopped caring about her.

Two years later I go on facebook and I found her. I send her a message and she doesn't even remember me. The last few days I've been thinking about her all the time. Theres other hot girls that I could of got but I don't even think about them why am I obsessed with this one?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holland

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Think about other things.
And remember, women are great, but they are to enhance life, not BE your life.
 
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blackbelt2k

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take an 8th of shrooms w/ some ganga and alcholol...sit down in your room, and stare at her picture...when she leaps out and becomes a freakin troll monster trying to eat you... u'll forget her
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it's the regret over what if's. But you cannot take back the past. You did what you thought was best for YOU at the time.

You have to pursue your passion now. Be involved helping the poor or abused animals. What has always helped me was getting out there instead of sitting and ruminating and actually getting to know as many girls as I can, whether or not they're HB.
 
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