"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to forget about a girl?

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About 2-3 years ago at school there was this girl that liked me alot but I didn't really care about her. We didn't talk alot but she did try to get my number once, I told her to give me hers and she said no so that pissed me off and I gave her a fake number. After that I felt a little regret but I went to a different school and stopped caring about her.

Two years later I go on facebook and I found her. I send her a message and she doesn't even remember me. The last few days I've been thinking about her all the time. Theres other hot girls that I could of got but I don't even think about them why am I obsessed with this one?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Think about other things.
And remember, women are great, but they are to enhance life, not BE your life.
 
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take an 8th of shrooms w/ some ganga and alcholol...sit down in your room, and stare at her picture...when she leaps out and becomes a freakin troll monster trying to eat you... u'll forget her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it's the regret over what if's. But you cannot take back the past. You did what you thought was best for YOU at the time.

You have to pursue your passion now. Be involved helping the poor or abused animals. What has always helped me was getting out there instead of sitting and ruminating and actually getting to know as many girls as I can, whether or not they're HB.
 
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