BlackDragon
Don Juan
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to flirt?
- Thread starter BlackDragon
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Flirting is not a lesson that can be learned in steps and repeated. It varies for every person.
Flirting is the act of hints/body language to convey attraction and interest.
There's flirting from the very subtle to ummistakeable - the type you use reflects yourself and your confidence level.
Eye Contact seems to work with everything, so be sure to incorporate it.
Flirting is the act of hints/body language to convey attraction and interest.
There's flirting from the very subtle to ummistakeable - the type you use reflects yourself and your confidence level.
Eye Contact seems to work with everything, so be sure to incorporate it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'd go against flirting and just be patient and C+F. People say that guys should do the approaching... that is true on the first "Hello" but after that, it is supposed to be the girl. Use eyes/body language to speak.
PhoenixPUA
Don Juan
You don't know how to flirt? Ever made fun of a girl for something she did that was dumb? Or turned something a girl said to you into something sexual and totally out of context? All that normal female to male conversation is flirting. It's almost IMPOSSIBLE not to flirt with a girl when you talk to her... unless you don't know how, like in your case 
If you need more information, or you desperately wanna know what girls think is flirty and such... go to the local grocery store and read Cosmopolitan magazine. I guarantee you that there will be at least one article about girls and how they like to be flirted with.
If you need more information, or you desperately wanna know what girls think is flirty and such... go to the local grocery store and read Cosmopolitan magazine. I guarantee you that there will be at least one article about girls and how they like to be flirted with.