"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to flirt?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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--R/J--

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Flirting is not a lesson that can be learned in steps and repeated. It varies for every person.

Flirting is the act of hints/body language to convey attraction and interest.

There's flirting from the very subtle to ummistakeable - the type you use reflects yourself and your confidence level.


Eye Contact seems to work with everything, so be sure to incorporate it.
 

killerasp

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Flirting is a combination of many things...language...touching...correct frame of mind...you can find alot more into this and many other things in the DJ bible.
 

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everytime she looks at you wiggle your nuts around and lick your lips
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd go against flirting and just be patient and C+F. People say that guys should do the approaching... that is true on the first "Hello" but after that, it is supposed to be the girl. Use eyes/body language to speak.
 

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You don't know how to flirt? Ever made fun of a girl for something she did that was dumb? Or turned something a girl said to you into something sexual and totally out of context? All that normal female to male conversation is flirting. It's almost IMPOSSIBLE not to flirt with a girl when you talk to her... unless you don't know how, like in your case ;)

If you need more information, or you desperately wanna know what girls think is flirty and such... go to the local grocery store and read Cosmopolitan magazine. I guarantee you that there will be at least one article about girls and how they like to be flirted with. :D
 
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