"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to flip this around at a girl?

venser

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So theres a girl i talk to alot in class (only in class though) and so anyways i added her on fb recently. and she dropped me a line that went something like

"stalker...lol whats up?"

whats something i can say back thats CF?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skirtChaser

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don't respond at all, that's disrespectful and anytime some chick says stalker I turn around and walk off and never give them the time of day again. I hate that stalker talk and refuse to make it into a joke, that's strong arm I'm talking about.
 

moto

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Im not sure which way you want to go. I mean do you really want to ignore her?
Why would she call you a stalker if you only speak to her in class?

You can either ignore her or make it into a joke like " o yea im your number 1 stalker did you forget" ...
 

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Either 1: she's trying to subtly tell you to back off, in which case you shouldn't worry about saying anything back and just leave her alone cause it's only going to get worse

or

2. She's flirting with you. Flirt back.

The 'what's up' makes it sound more like #2....you're in luck.
 

Jaxon

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krazyboy99 said:
tell her to stop fantasizing
I'd go with that one. She said "lol" so it seems pretty obvious she's not being serious.
Brush your shoulder off and flirt back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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venser said:
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"stalker...lol whats up?"

whats something i can say back thats CF?
Whats up is my penis - get over here!
 
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