"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to flip this around at a girl?

venser

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So theres a girl i talk to alot in class (only in class though) and so anyways i added her on fb recently. and she dropped me a line that went something like

"stalker...lol whats up?"

whats something i can say back thats CF?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skirtChaser

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don't respond at all, that's disrespectful and anytime some chick says stalker I turn around and walk off and never give them the time of day again. I hate that stalker talk and refuse to make it into a joke, that's strong arm I'm talking about.
 

moto

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Im not sure which way you want to go. I mean do you really want to ignore her?
Why would she call you a stalker if you only speak to her in class?

You can either ignore her or make it into a joke like " o yea im your number 1 stalker did you forget" ...
 

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Either 1: she's trying to subtly tell you to back off, in which case you shouldn't worry about saying anything back and just leave her alone cause it's only going to get worse

or

2. She's flirting with you. Flirt back.

The 'what's up' makes it sound more like #2....you're in luck.
 

Jaxon

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krazyboy99 said:
tell her to stop fantasizing
I'd go with that one. She said "lol" so it seems pretty obvious she's not being serious.
Brush your shoulder off and flirt back.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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venser said:
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"stalker...lol whats up?"

whats something i can say back thats CF?
Whats up is my penis - get over here!
 
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