"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frivolousz21

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due to some recent things happening in my life.


good things of course..well sorta :)

I have no use for this place much now..and I will inform all of you why shortly as if you care.:)


but the thing that changes most people here.

ITS THE BOOTCAMP!

YES THE ALMIGHTLY BOOTCAMP.


when my game was low..I hit a bootcamp..finished 5 weeks.

was dating 3 or 4 women after that.


it was amazing.

IN ANY BOOTCAMP MILITARY, DON JAUN...ANY..YOU WILL SELF IMPROVE DRASTICALLY.


there could be a separrate forum for the bootcamp threads......

you could even put under there names..in a bootcamp

instead of don jaun.

that way the newbie posters are separated.


just some thoughts.

but if u dont do a bootcamp your really really not trying hard
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SparkleMotion

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I think is the first material I've ever seen you post, that is actually good advice.

Though you still need to work on your English :cool: .
 

spider_007

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I have no use for this place much now..and I will inform all of you why shortly as if you care.:)
Don't keep us in supence gurly boy.

let me guess you got angaged:eek:
 

frivolousz21

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Don't keep us in supence gurly boy.

your still a borderline KBJ....and you try validating your low self esteem by trying to get on someone who has become successful for themselves
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sapiens

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but the thing that changes most people here.

ITS THE BOOTCAMP!

YES THE ALMIGHTLY BOOTCAMP.

IN ANY BOOTCAMP MILITARY, DON JAUN...ANY..YOU WILL SELF IMPROVE DRASTICALLY.
Dude, you are fvcking Genius !!!!!

You just answered my freaking question I have been working on for the past two years!!!!

Confidence is build upon experiences!!! Yeah, why didn’t I see it before?? It was right in front of me.

See, you can hear, see and understand the theory, but if you do not FEEL it in action you DON”T believe it. That is why AFC don’t improve even if they KNOW the theory. Why did it work on me? Because I am a hands on person, I read it, then put it into action….!

Wow, THANKS FRIV!!!!!!!!

-Sapiens
 
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