"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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due to some recent things happening in my life.


good things of course..well sorta :)

I have no use for this place much now..and I will inform all of you why shortly as if you care.:)


but the thing that changes most people here.

ITS THE BOOTCAMP!

YES THE ALMIGHTLY BOOTCAMP.


when my game was low..I hit a bootcamp..finished 5 weeks.

was dating 3 or 4 women after that.


it was amazing.

IN ANY BOOTCAMP MILITARY, DON JAUN...ANY..YOU WILL SELF IMPROVE DRASTICALLY.


there could be a separrate forum for the bootcamp threads......

you could even put under there names..in a bootcamp

instead of don jaun.

that way the newbie posters are separated.


just some thoughts.

but if u dont do a bootcamp your really really not trying hard
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think is the first material I've ever seen you post, that is actually good advice.

Though you still need to work on your English :cool: .
 

spider_007

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I have no use for this place much now..and I will inform all of you why shortly as if you care.:)
Don't keep us in supence gurly boy.

let me guess you got angaged:eek:
 

frivolousz21

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Don't keep us in supence gurly boy.

your still a borderline KBJ....and you try validating your low self esteem by trying to get on someone who has become successful for themselves
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sapiens

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but the thing that changes most people here.

ITS THE BOOTCAMP!

YES THE ALMIGHTLY BOOTCAMP.

IN ANY BOOTCAMP MILITARY, DON JAUN...ANY..YOU WILL SELF IMPROVE DRASTICALLY.
Dude, you are fvcking Genius !!!!!

You just answered my freaking question I have been working on for the past two years!!!!

Confidence is build upon experiences!!! Yeah, why didn’t I see it before?? It was right in front of me.

See, you can hear, see and understand the theory, but if you do not FEEL it in action you DON”T believe it. That is why AFC don’t improve even if they KNOW the theory. Why did it work on me? Because I am a hands on person, I read it, then put it into action….!

Wow, THANKS FRIV!!!!!!!!

-Sapiens
 
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