"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to FIX this site:

frivolousz21

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due to some recent things happening in my life.


good things of course..well sorta :)

I have no use for this place much now..and I will inform all of you why shortly as if you care.:)


but the thing that changes most people here.

ITS THE BOOTCAMP!

YES THE ALMIGHTLY BOOTCAMP.


when my game was low..I hit a bootcamp..finished 5 weeks.

was dating 3 or 4 women after that.


it was amazing.

IN ANY BOOTCAMP MILITARY, DON JAUN...ANY..YOU WILL SELF IMPROVE DRASTICALLY.


there could be a separrate forum for the bootcamp threads......

you could even put under there names..in a bootcamp

instead of don jaun.

that way the newbie posters are separated.


just some thoughts.

but if u dont do a bootcamp your really really not trying hard
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think is the first material I've ever seen you post, that is actually good advice.

Though you still need to work on your English :cool: .
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I have no use for this place much now..and I will inform all of you why shortly as if you care.:)
Don't keep us in supence gurly boy.

let me guess you got angaged:eek:
 

frivolousz21

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Don't keep us in supence gurly boy.

your still a borderline KBJ....and you try validating your low self esteem by trying to get on someone who has become successful for themselves
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sapiens

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but the thing that changes most people here.

ITS THE BOOTCAMP!

YES THE ALMIGHTLY BOOTCAMP.

IN ANY BOOTCAMP MILITARY, DON JAUN...ANY..YOU WILL SELF IMPROVE DRASTICALLY.
Dude, you are fvcking Genius !!!!!

You just answered my freaking question I have been working on for the past two years!!!!

Confidence is build upon experiences!!! Yeah, why didn’t I see it before?? It was right in front of me.

See, you can hear, see and understand the theory, but if you do not FEEL it in action you DON”T believe it. That is why AFC don’t improve even if they KNOW the theory. Why did it work on me? Because I am a hands on person, I read it, then put it into action….!

Wow, THANKS FRIV!!!!!!!!

-Sapiens
 
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