How to find a quality relationship?

[Thechamp]

How to find a quality relationship? I guess it's why we all get involved in the game? So how do www achieve this ?

 

[MrWood]

1. pick visual stimulating female target for your taste from the ones chasing/orbiting YOU
2. read posts by @LiveYourDream describing how she relates to men, be sure your target exhibits some of her qualities, femininity and values
3. fvck on 1st date or 5th
4. profit

 

[fastlife]

Step 1: Build the kind of lifestyle you want for yourself.
Step 2: Find a girl who doesn't try to fvck it up.

But by the time you achieve Step 1, Step 2 becomes a lot less important. The need or desire for a relationship almost always stems from a lack that you can only provide for yourself.

 

[Poon King]

How to find a quality relationship? I guess it's why we all get involved in the game? So how do www achieve this ?

Be the best man she can get and STAY the best man she can get.

What most betas don't understand is there is no such thing as a "quality woman". Women are the passive and submissive gender. They BECOME what they need to be to get what they want from men. So a high value man will always have so called "quality woman" available to him. But those same "quality woman" would often treat your average beta like trash.

I have been with women who treated my like a king while treating other men like scum. The quality of our relationship with a woman is directly related to how much you have to offer her. Never forget.

 

[marmel75]

Stop looking for one and you'll be in a much better mindset

 

[guru1000]

Women are the passive and submissive gender. So a high value man will always have so called "quality woman" available to him. But those same "quality woman" would often treat your average beta like trash.

Strong point. Explains the differential among men on this site on its cosmetic level. Quality women are most abundant 2-3 points below me, but at my level are a rare breed.
Looking deeper, what "need" would a HB9 have to be quality at all? She will get what she wants irrespectively.

Though, there are distinctions of human behavior and thus prudent not to subscribe all rules unequivocal. As your man Bruce Lee states: Be like water: formless, shapeless. Subscribe to nothing, but be aware of the underlying dynamics at work.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Be the best man she can get and STAY the best man she can get.

What most betas don't understand is there is no such thing as a "quality woman". Women are the passive and submissive gender. They BECOME what they need to be to get what they want from men. So a high value man will always have so called "quality woman" available to him. But those same "quality woman" would often treat your average beta like trash.

I have been with women who treated my like a king while treating other men like scum. The quality of our relationship with a woman is directly related to how much you have to offer her. Never forget.

There is no such thing as a quality woman, but there is such a thing as a ho. So basically it boils down to: avoid hos, find a nice woman and be the Man. She will upgrade her game to be as femenine as she can.

 

[RangerMIke]

@Poon King is correct 'quality' is relative. A quality women to a man she thinks is better than she is, is a miserable shrew to a man who she thinks has lower value than her.

The key is be the best man you can be.... only go after women who are REALLY interested in you. And never NEVER pursue a relationship... she has to bring it up. Because if she doesn't try to lock you down, then she doesn't REALLY think you are better than she is... which means it will NEVER last.

 

[Serenity]

One does not simply find a quality relationship. One creates it.

Huge difference there. If it were as simple as finding it, you don't have to do much. If you did find it, your underlying point of view would lead you to actions that surely would deteriorate the relationship. You must create a good relationship, before you do that you must create yourself and your life.

It's like you expect you can just find a quality woman and all will be fine. But you're ruling out 50% of that relationship, yourself. What are you? Who are you? Do you have quality to offer?

Don't focus just on what they can offer you, it's equally important what you can offer them.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The two circles represent the girls you want to fvck and the girls you enjoy talking to. Relationships are the overlap.

 

[cola]

You just have sex with them on a regular basis and the ones who want more than sex will let it be known. Usually by saying "So what are we?" And your response is "what do you want to be?" Then you decide if she lives up to your relationship standards..
But never ask a girl to be your girlfriend.

 

[The Duke]

How do you find a high quality relationship?

-Don’t change/alter who you are and how you think. Be true to your personality. Don’t sugarcoat your personality.
-Find someone that comes from parents that weren’t divorced.
-Pick a girl with <5 sechsual partners in her past.
-Only keep girls that think the world of you.
-You won’t have to chase a girl that is truly into you. She won’t play any games. She won’t require any games. She’ll adjust her life to be with you. It will come easy.
-Look for someone that has good people/personal skills.
-Look for a girl that see’s some value in old school relationships where the woman played more of a supporting role.
-Look for a submissive girl.
-Look for a girl with some hobbies/passions for something other than her own beauty.
-Check her night stand/medicine cabinet/purse for any type of anxiety/sleeping medication. High quality girls don't require pills to function properly.

 

[marmel75]

-Pick a girl with <5 sechsual partners in her past.

You'll be single for a long time if you truly look for that. Unless they are 18. If you honestly think a woman who has been to college has had under 5 partners I've got a bridge to sell you...

Either you are very naive or you simply believe what they actually tell you, which we all know is BS anyway, so them saying they have fvcked 5 dudes or less is a straight up lie....multiply whatever they tell you by 3 or 4.

 

[The Duke]

Marmel- sounds like you know it all! I've had 3 of them. (Oh yeah that all lied to me, after you are with somebody for a long time its pretty easy to figure out their past!) Feel free to adjust that number for your age group. The exact number isn't the point here.

There's a reason women seek multiple partners and that reason has to do with whats lacking inside. The point is the best girls don't need continuous validation that multiple sechs partners provide. All 3 of these girls spent more time in long term relationships than they did on the cahk carousel.

I imagine I'm quite a bit older than you and therefore have experienced different things. The older generations didn't seek so much validation and multiple partners were frowned upon in a big way. Relationships with people weren't so disposable as they are these days. We'll leave it at that.

 

[Trump]

How to find a quality relationship? I guess it's why we all get involved in the game? So how do www achieve this ?

What do you mean by 'quality' bro? Do you want a girl who listens to you all the time and gives you great sex? Do you want a girl who cooks and cleans for you? Do you want a girl who doesn't talk back to you? Do you want a girl who is rich? Once the word 'quality' is used the question becomes ambiguous.

As Grewd said, you don't 'find' a relationship, you have to be good enough to create it. Actually she creates it and maintains it. Your job is to sleep with her and ensure she has fun when she is with you.