mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
What you think is your friend doesnt necessarily want you doing better than them.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how to explain the concept of "nice guy"?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
touma.akagi
Senior Don Juan
I have never once met a manipulative nice guy, it's always been on the receiving end of the manipulation. Matter of fact that's exactly how I was until I "got it" that I needed to stop letting people take sick advantage of me.
I know for a fact that I couldn't manipulate anyone to save my life as a minor. It was something I'd been conditioned to believe was impossible.
SoSuave666
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The concept of nice guy is actually incongruence. Nice guys are acting disingenuously because they believe their niceness will get them what they want.
Women especially but even a man can sense another “nice guy” from miles away.
Women especially but even a man can sense another “nice guy” from miles away.
The Diver
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Haha, I did that mistake last year. (I had a post about it).
I recommended the RM to an 18y/o son of a girl I was dating, trying to help him with girls. She had one look at it and dumped me, saying "if this is the book you recommended to my son, I don't want anything to do with you".Haha , poor son. lesson learned: Adhere to the Fight Club rule.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.