how to explain the concept of "nice guy"?

[mrgoodstuff]

But then you know who your friends are.

What you think is your friend doesnt necessarily want you doing better than them.

 

[6_Magnet]

You're being a nice guy by MAKING THIS POST. You want people to be OKAY with the way you describe what a NICE GUY IS. YOU ****ING NICE GUY!!!!!

 

[touma.akagi]

A nice guy will let people treat him like a doormat. He doesn’t stand up for himself and perpetually fails shyt tests because of his overt weakness. Also typically passive aggressive and manipulative.

I have never once met a manipulative nice guy, it's always been on the receiving end of the manipulation. Matter of fact that's exactly how I was until I "got it" that I needed to stop letting people take sick advantage of me.

I know for a fact that I couldn't manipulate anyone to save my life as a minor. It was something I'd been conditioned to believe was impossible.

 

[SoSuave666]

The concept of nice guy is actually incongruence. Nice guys are acting disingenuously because they believe their niceness will get them what they want.
Women especially but even a man can sense another “nice guy” from miles away.

 

[The Diver]

That’s one of those books I wouldn’t even tell people I’m reading.

Haha, I did that mistake last year. (I had a post about it).
I recommended the RM to an 18y/o son of a girl I was dating, trying to help him with girls. She had one look at it and dumped me, saying "if this is the book you recommended to my son, I don't want anything to do with you".Haha , poor son. lesson learned: Adhere to the Fight Club rule.