"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to escalate situations with someone who isn't single?

sneakypete

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Here's the situation, as situation dictates, I have a limited availability of women to choose from. Anyway, one of them decides to change into her jogging get up in front of me, which was conveniently underneath her normal clothes. Just bends over in front of me and takes her pants off, to treat me to a view of her jogging shorts. Related note, people notice she sticks her ass out a little farther when I'm around. She starts talking to me about her regrets and values, comments on me being ****y and she can't figure out if I'm good or bad, then says she wishes I was more like an AFC. Her boy friend shows up, so I do my own thing, and from that point, she looks at me any time she walks by with a frustrated look in her eyes that says she's holding things back. Oh yeah, and she talks about how other females think I'm this and that, though I don't see too many IOIs from all these women who are "in love" with me. Eye contact right now would be safe, she's blushed and dropped eye contact and looks away embarrassed like she's trying to hide her smile when I smile at her. The guy's a doosh, I don't like him much, so who cares about him. She said the way I look at women has warmth and longing and affects them. She isn't single, so how should I go about it?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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(stealing advice from a wise man who i forget said this on sosuave.com)
Flip a coin to decide. If what you didn't choose for what you flipped nags at you, thats your heart. Go with your heart and fight for it
 
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