Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to escalate situations with someone who isn't single?

sneakypete

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Here's the situation, as situation dictates, I have a limited availability of women to choose from. Anyway, one of them decides to change into her jogging get up in front of me, which was conveniently underneath her normal clothes. Just bends over in front of me and takes her pants off, to treat me to a view of her jogging shorts. Related note, people notice she sticks her ass out a little farther when I'm around. She starts talking to me about her regrets and values, comments on me being ****y and she can't figure out if I'm good or bad, then says she wishes I was more like an AFC. Her boy friend shows up, so I do my own thing, and from that point, she looks at me any time she walks by with a frustrated look in her eyes that says she's holding things back. Oh yeah, and she talks about how other females think I'm this and that, though I don't see too many IOIs from all these women who are "in love" with me. Eye contact right now would be safe, she's blushed and dropped eye contact and looks away embarrassed like she's trying to hide her smile when I smile at her. The guy's a doosh, I don't like him much, so who cares about him. She said the way I look at women has warmth and longing and affects them. She isn't single, so how should I go about it?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jblitz59

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(stealing advice from a wise man who i forget said this on sosuave.com)
Flip a coin to decide. If what you didn't choose for what you flipped nags at you, thats your heart. Go with your heart and fight for it
 
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