"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to escalate situations with someone who isn't single?

sneakypete

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Here's the situation, as situation dictates, I have a limited availability of women to choose from. Anyway, one of them decides to change into her jogging get up in front of me, which was conveniently underneath her normal clothes. Just bends over in front of me and takes her pants off, to treat me to a view of her jogging shorts. Related note, people notice she sticks her ass out a little farther when I'm around. She starts talking to me about her regrets and values, comments on me being ****y and she can't figure out if I'm good or bad, then says she wishes I was more like an AFC. Her boy friend shows up, so I do my own thing, and from that point, she looks at me any time she walks by with a frustrated look in her eyes that says she's holding things back. Oh yeah, and she talks about how other females think I'm this and that, though I don't see too many IOIs from all these women who are "in love" with me. Eye contact right now would be safe, she's blushed and dropped eye contact and looks away embarrassed like she's trying to hide her smile when I smile at her. The guy's a doosh, I don't like him much, so who cares about him. She said the way I look at women has warmth and longing and affects them. She isn't single, so how should I go about it?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jblitz59

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(stealing advice from a wise man who i forget said this on sosuave.com)
Flip a coin to decide. If what you didn't choose for what you flipped nags at you, thats your heart. Go with your heart and fight for it
 
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