"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to engage women's emotions ?

callmej

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I have a recent failure with a woman that I was really into and she was too for couple of month, I was very beta with her and she always responded positively, but now I am thinking maybe it's because of that, that's why she lost interest and starting acting distant and flaking, maybe she liked me being beta at first and then got bored of it, maybe it's because I didn't make her feel a range of emotions...

The question is, how do you engage different emotions ? What do you guys normally say or do ?


Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BetterCallSaul

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Do you have a pulse? If so, you will successfully engage a woman's emotions.
 

Fireballs

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Treat her like a little girl
Story telling (make her feel things, be descriptive)
Push/Pull
****y/Funny
Teasing
Play practical jokes on her
Be an @sshole
Lead her
Neg her
Make her sad/angry/happy/horny etc...
 

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I have once seen a video of a female dating coach talking about "deep connection". It's basically asking her things and letting her talk about it, you know how woman like to talk about stuff they love. And then gradually asking her deeper questions, things like why she liked it and what she feels.

Check her out on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvNQo5cPuVM
 

callmej

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LuckyStrike88 said:
I have once seen a video of a female dating coach talking about "deep connection". It's basically asking her things and letting her talk about it, you know how woman like to talk about stuff they love. And then gradually asking her deeper questions, things like why she liked it and what she feels.

Check her out on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvNQo5cPuVM
great video! thanks. I wish i would've seen this before i messed everything up with the girl I'm talking to.. unfortunately it seems like i can't attract her again..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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callmej said:
I have a recent failure with a woman that I was really into and she was too for couple of month, I was very beta with her and she always responded positively, but now I am thinking maybe it's because of that, that's why she lost interest and starting acting distant and flaking, maybe she liked me being beta at first and then got bored of it, maybe it's because I didn't make her feel a range of emotions...

The question is, how do you engage different emotions ? What do you guys normally say or do ?


Thanks in advance.
Good question. Well a couple things women like are drama & violence. Think about that. I sometimes find myself thinking I know what I need to be to attract women i.e I could be violent.

We know that the boxer who rides a motorbike & causes scenes with his masculine friends whilst getting drunk is gonna trigger a couple of the emotions women like to feel drama & violence Food for thought callmej. You could change yourself into this guy, but I personally haven't chosen that path. I work long hours, im paying a mortgage & work in security so I cannot get into trouble with the police :) so i think the badboy lifestyle is not for me. I am always working on my game, reading, coming on here, approaching women etc etc trying to be the best I can be.

The most important thing is what do you want? A relationship? Different women all the time? That's the most important thing. Remember that.
 
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