"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to engage women's emotions ?

callmej

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I have a recent failure with a woman that I was really into and she was too for couple of month, I was very beta with her and she always responded positively, but now I am thinking maybe it's because of that, that's why she lost interest and starting acting distant and flaking, maybe she liked me being beta at first and then got bored of it, maybe it's because I didn't make her feel a range of emotions...

The question is, how do you engage different emotions ? What do you guys normally say or do ?


Thanks in advance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BetterCallSaul

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Do you have a pulse? If so, you will successfully engage a woman's emotions.
 

Fireballs

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Treat her like a little girl
Story telling (make her feel things, be descriptive)
Push/Pull
****y/Funny
Teasing
Play practical jokes on her
Be an @sshole
Lead her
Neg her
Make her sad/angry/happy/horny etc...
 

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I have once seen a video of a female dating coach talking about "deep connection". It's basically asking her things and letting her talk about it, you know how woman like to talk about stuff they love. And then gradually asking her deeper questions, things like why she liked it and what she feels.

Check her out on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvNQo5cPuVM
 

callmej

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LuckyStrike88 said:
I have once seen a video of a female dating coach talking about "deep connection". It's basically asking her things and letting her talk about it, you know how woman like to talk about stuff they love. And then gradually asking her deeper questions, things like why she liked it and what she feels.

Check her out on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvNQo5cPuVM
great video! thanks. I wish i would've seen this before i messed everything up with the girl I'm talking to.. unfortunately it seems like i can't attract her again..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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callmej said:
I have a recent failure with a woman that I was really into and she was too for couple of month, I was very beta with her and she always responded positively, but now I am thinking maybe it's because of that, that's why she lost interest and starting acting distant and flaking, maybe she liked me being beta at first and then got bored of it, maybe it's because I didn't make her feel a range of emotions...

The question is, how do you engage different emotions ? What do you guys normally say or do ?


Thanks in advance.
Good question. Well a couple things women like are drama & violence. Think about that. I sometimes find myself thinking I know what I need to be to attract women i.e I could be violent.

We know that the boxer who rides a motorbike & causes scenes with his masculine friends whilst getting drunk is gonna trigger a couple of the emotions women like to feel drama & violence Food for thought callmej. You could change yourself into this guy, but I personally haven't chosen that path. I work long hours, im paying a mortgage & work in security so I cannot get into trouble with the police :) so i think the badboy lifestyle is not for me. I am always working on my game, reading, coming on here, approaching women etc etc trying to be the best I can be.

The most important thing is what do you want? A relationship? Different women all the time? That's the most important thing. Remember that.
 
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