Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to end it with plate.

grayclif

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So I had a nice date in the middle of last week. Light text banter the rest of the week. She starts texting me late Saturday night so I say why don't you come over.

Anyway we have a great time. S.ex was really good. I still can't get used to these condoms but that's another story. She's a nice lady and everything but I realize now that I don't think I want her as a plate. What is a nice way to end it with her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Glumix

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What is a nice way to end it with her.
Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...
 

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Grayclif,

You said you had a great time and the s.ex was really good.

Just curious if you don't mind saying, why do you want to end it?

-Augustus-
 

grayclif

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Grayclif,

You said you had a great time and the s.ex was really good.

Just curious if you don't mind saying, why do you want to end it?

-Augustus-
She's jobless and is some dudes "roomate". I didn't go into specifics but she did say he has an interest in her romantically. I'm not exactly clear on the details of that relationship as to whether or not she is cheating. She is divotced, her kids live with their fsther in another country. A friend whom I work with and is her cousin says she's crazy. Maybe you have some insight.

She was so quick to f.uck. Her mouth tasted funny. I noticed it on the first date and when we kissed again it was the same.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Block her ass and go ghost.
 

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Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...
And do it in a public place............
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...

Idk why you guys advise on stuff like this. You know damn well if you don't want a chick that you aren't going to waste more time with the ***** just to do stuff like this.

If you don't like a chick just go ghost or start slowly avoiding her. Plain and simple. No more wasted time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sodbuster

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A woman who lost her kids????? Almost NEVER happens here, I'd say she's a bit off.... and banging her roommate
 

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her kids live with their fsther in another country. Her mouth tasted funny. I noticed it on the first date and when we kissed again it was the same.
Red flag - kids not with her. I'd question that aspect. Hard. Count 1.
Red flag - her mouth tastes funny. Poss druggie or prescription meds (metallic taste). Count 2.
(Possible) Red flag - you wake up with your d1ck chopped off. You didn't feel a thing at the time. Count 3 and out.

Gallop. Far, far, away.
 

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Red flag - kids not with her. I'd question that aspect. Hard. Count 1.
Red flag - her mouth tastes funny. Poss druggie or prescription meds (metallic taste). Count 2.
(Possible) Red flag - you wake up with your d1ck chopped off. You didn't feel a thing at the time. Count 3 and out.

Gallop. Far, far, away.
I'm not questioning anybody. She's blocked.
 
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