"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to end it with plate.

grayclif

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So I had a nice date in the middle of last week. Light text banter the rest of the week. She starts texting me late Saturday night so I say why don't you come over.

Anyway we have a great time. S.ex was really good. I still can't get used to these condoms but that's another story. She's a nice lady and everything but I realize now that I don't think I want her as a plate. What is a nice way to end it with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Glumix

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What is a nice way to end it with her.
Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...
 

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Grayclif,

You said you had a great time and the s.ex was really good.

Just curious if you don't mind saying, why do you want to end it?

-Augustus-
 

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Grayclif,

You said you had a great time and the s.ex was really good.

Just curious if you don't mind saying, why do you want to end it?

-Augustus-
She's jobless and is some dudes "roomate". I didn't go into specifics but she did say he has an interest in her romantically. I'm not exactly clear on the details of that relationship as to whether or not she is cheating. She is divotced, her kids live with their fsther in another country. A friend whom I work with and is her cousin says she's crazy. Maybe you have some insight.

She was so quick to f.uck. Her mouth tasted funny. I noticed it on the first date and when we kissed again it was the same.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Block her ass and go ghost.
 

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Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...
And do it in a public place............
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...

Idk why you guys advise on stuff like this. You know damn well if you don't want a chick that you aren't going to waste more time with the ***** just to do stuff like this.

If you don't like a chick just go ghost or start slowly avoiding her. Plain and simple. No more wasted time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A woman who lost her kids????? Almost NEVER happens here, I'd say she's a bit off.... and banging her roommate
 

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her kids live with their fsther in another country. Her mouth tasted funny. I noticed it on the first date and when we kissed again it was the same.
Red flag - kids not with her. I'd question that aspect. Hard. Count 1.
Red flag - her mouth tastes funny. Poss druggie or prescription meds (metallic taste). Count 2.
(Possible) Red flag - you wake up with your d1ck chopped off. You didn't feel a thing at the time. Count 3 and out.

Gallop. Far, far, away.
 

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Red flag - kids not with her. I'd question that aspect. Hard. Count 1.
Red flag - her mouth tastes funny. Poss druggie or prescription meds (metallic taste). Count 2.
(Possible) Red flag - you wake up with your d1ck chopped off. You didn't feel a thing at the time. Count 3 and out.

Gallop. Far, far, away.
I'm not questioning anybody. She's blocked.
 
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