"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to end it with plate.

grayclif

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So I had a nice date in the middle of last week. Light text banter the rest of the week. She starts texting me late Saturday night so I say why don't you come over.

Anyway we have a great time. S.ex was really good. I still can't get used to these condoms but that's another story. She's a nice lady and everything but I realize now that I don't think I want her as a plate. What is a nice way to end it with her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Glumix

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What is a nice way to end it with her.
Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...
 

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Grayclif,

You said you had a great time and the s.ex was really good.

Just curious if you don't mind saying, why do you want to end it?

-Augustus-
 

grayclif

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Grayclif,

You said you had a great time and the s.ex was really good.

Just curious if you don't mind saying, why do you want to end it?

-Augustus-
She's jobless and is some dudes "roomate". I didn't go into specifics but she did say he has an interest in her romantically. I'm not exactly clear on the details of that relationship as to whether or not she is cheating. She is divotced, her kids live with their fsther in another country. A friend whom I work with and is her cousin says she's crazy. Maybe you have some insight.

She was so quick to f.uck. Her mouth tasted funny. I noticed it on the first date and when we kissed again it was the same.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Block her ass and go ghost.
 

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Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...
And do it in a public place............
 

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Switch your mindset to BETA mode temporarily and say the kind of thing most women would say to you :

- I am so sorry.
- I can't open my heart to you.
- I have a lot going in my mind and I would like to sort it out before we meet again.
- I feel really bad about what we did, even though you were great, but its hard in my love life right now.
- I don't want to hurt you more.
- Hope you understand and that we can be friend forever.
- Peace.

Ya know, that kind of BS...

Idk why you guys advise on stuff like this. You know damn well if you don't want a chick that you aren't going to waste more time with the ***** just to do stuff like this.

If you don't like a chick just go ghost or start slowly avoiding her. Plain and simple. No more wasted time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sodbuster

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A woman who lost her kids????? Almost NEVER happens here, I'd say she's a bit off.... and banging her roommate
 

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her kids live with their fsther in another country. Her mouth tasted funny. I noticed it on the first date and when we kissed again it was the same.
Red flag - kids not with her. I'd question that aspect. Hard. Count 1.
Red flag - her mouth tastes funny. Poss druggie or prescription meds (metallic taste). Count 2.
(Possible) Red flag - you wake up with your d1ck chopped off. You didn't feel a thing at the time. Count 3 and out.

Gallop. Far, far, away.
 

grayclif

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Red flag - kids not with her. I'd question that aspect. Hard. Count 1.
Red flag - her mouth tastes funny. Poss druggie or prescription meds (metallic taste). Count 2.
(Possible) Red flag - you wake up with your d1ck chopped off. You didn't feel a thing at the time. Count 3 and out.

Gallop. Far, far, away.
I'm not questioning anybody. She's blocked.
 
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