You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Upload pictures of you traveling, hanging out with your friends and also with chicks. Can't harm to show off your female friends or random women you met while traveling. Skip food pictures. Those are only good for your stories. This way you can casually link the restaurant you're eating at. Good conversation opener for women watching your story.This is a question I have currently. I'm an attractive guy, but women don't reach out to me. How do I raise my value through social media?
Post interesting stuff that get a lot of likes, and not just stupid memes. Whatever you write or photograph, or record, or have an opinion off it must have value: and if it does people will click like and share which would lead chicks to believe that people find you interesting. Most of them will not message you, they will typically write a comment with some “hahahas” to play it cool.This is a question I have currently. I'm an attractive guy, but women don't reach out to me. How do I raise my value through social media?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attractive men need social media to raise his value ?This is a question I have currently. I'm an attractive guy, but women don't reach out to me. How do I raise my value through social media?

The girl who invited me over is a Director in her family's company. She helps her dad run some parts of it.Except you are white&successful Spaz and that girl that has invited you over is obviously not - so basically speaking you use your high value in environment that gives you additional 2 or 3 SMV points bonus/where white men with money&status are perceived as ubermensch.
I'm not saying that creating such environment for yourself is something bad (on the contrary!) however its a bit like saying to Pershing's a soldier in WWI trenches you are fighting WWI too (except you are part of occupation force on one of german islands on Pacific and there was no resistance ;p)
I post pictures on occasion when I am doing something fun, but I am not doing it to seek validation. I am doing it for the purpose of sharing the pictures with the people I am friends with on fb. If I start getting DMs from chicks from it, so be it lol.I know there has been alot of talk the last 10 years about raising your value on social media. I am with Glassguy here - you shouldn't be worried about it.
I think you will do better focusing on succeeding and making money, building your savings, etc. As far as women? I think your time is better spent getting in group, social settings with people in real life.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Post pictures like this:How do I raise my value through social media?
It's the same with European chicks. Actually it's the same in every country I've been to.Sorry mate, I obviously made wrongful assumption - good for you.
Still, you operate in more conservative environment - I'd really prefer that than dealing with liberał european chicks.
What does this even have to do with OPs question about HV on social media?Attractive men need social media to raise his value ?
Have a look and see at the below WhatsApp chat of a young woman inviting me out on a pretext that I've got some "books" at her apartment - this is 2 days ago, not some crap from 10 years ago.
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I met up and had a quick romp at her bed in her apartment. The "book" was actually some crap she thought up, there was none.
I was out of her apartment in less then 1 hour.
Below chat is the after effects of her reaction after the quicky. Suddenly I'm a beautiful man...when I've not shaved in a couple of days.
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Still jealous of me?What does this even have to do with OPs question about HV on social media?
Once again using any opportunity to brag about yourself without adding value, I see.
I know this forum is a magnet for narcissists, perhaps even breeds and encourages the behavior.. but you have the worst case of NPD I have ever seen my friend. You know what they say about narcs right, they're actually insecure on the inside.Still jealous of me?
Careful now, ur migraine attacks might come on any moment and we'll have to endure more of ur cries for sympathy....
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I know and that's why you keep chasing me...from last year.I know this forum is a magnet for narcissists, perhaps even breeds and encourages the behavior.. but you have the worst case of NPD I have ever seen my friend. You know what they say about narcs right, they're actually insecure on the inside.
Saved me a type up.As a man you shouldnt be searching for validation on social media. You should be living life.
Thirsty and low self esteem women are the only ones who should be trying to get validation on social media.