I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Upload pictures of you traveling, hanging out with your friends and also with chicks. Can't harm to show off your female friends or random women you met while traveling. Skip food pictures. Those are only good for your stories. This way you can casually link the restaurant you're eating at. Good conversation opener for women watching your story.This is a question I have currently. I'm an attractive guy, but women don't reach out to me. How do I raise my value through social media?
Post interesting stuff that get a lot of likes, and not just stupid memes. Whatever you write or photograph, or record, or have an opinion off it must have value: and if it does people will click like and share which would lead chicks to believe that people find you interesting. Most of them will not message you, they will typically write a comment with some “hahahas” to play it cool.This is a question I have currently. I'm an attractive guy, but women don't reach out to me. How do I raise my value through social media?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attractive men need social media to raise his value ?This is a question I have currently. I'm an attractive guy, but women don't reach out to me. How do I raise my value through social media?

The girl who invited me over is a Director in her family's company. She helps her dad run some parts of it.Except you are white&successful Spaz and that girl that has invited you over is obviously not - so basically speaking you use your high value in environment that gives you additional 2 or 3 SMV points bonus/where white men with money&status are perceived as ubermensch.
I'm not saying that creating such environment for yourself is something bad (on the contrary!) however its a bit like saying to Pershing's a soldier in WWI trenches you are fighting WWI too (except you are part of occupation force on one of german islands on Pacific and there was no resistance ;p)
I post pictures on occasion when I am doing something fun, but I am not doing it to seek validation. I am doing it for the purpose of sharing the pictures with the people I am friends with on fb. If I start getting DMs from chicks from it, so be it lol.I know there has been alot of talk the last 10 years about raising your value on social media. I am with Glassguy here - you shouldn't be worried about it.
I think you will do better focusing on succeeding and making money, building your savings, etc. As far as women? I think your time is better spent getting in group, social settings with people in real life.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Post pictures like this:How do I raise my value through social media?
It's the same with European chicks. Actually it's the same in every country I've been to.Sorry mate, I obviously made wrongful assumption - good for you.
Still, you operate in more conservative environment - I'd really prefer that than dealing with liberał european chicks.
What does this even have to do with OPs question about HV on social media?Attractive men need social media to raise his value ?
Have a look and see at the below WhatsApp chat of a young woman inviting me out on a pretext that I've got some "books" at her apartment - this is 2 days ago, not some crap from 10 years ago.
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I met up and had a quick romp at her bed in her apartment. The "book" was actually some crap she thought up, there was none.
I was out of her apartment in less then 1 hour.
Below chat is the after effects of her reaction after the quicky. Suddenly I'm a beautiful man...when I've not shaved in a couple of days.
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Still jealous of me?What does this even have to do with OPs question about HV on social media?
Once again using any opportunity to brag about yourself without adding value, I see.
I know this forum is a magnet for narcissists, perhaps even breeds and encourages the behavior.. but you have the worst case of NPD I have ever seen my friend. You know what they say about narcs right, they're actually insecure on the inside.Still jealous of me?
Careful now, ur migraine attacks might come on any moment and we'll have to endure more of ur cries for sympathy....
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I know and that's why you keep chasing me...from last year.I know this forum is a magnet for narcissists, perhaps even breeds and encourages the behavior.. but you have the worst case of NPD I have ever seen my friend. You know what they say about narcs right, they're actually insecure on the inside.
Saved me a type up.As a man you shouldnt be searching for validation on social media. You should be living life.
Thirsty and low self esteem women are the only ones who should be trying to get validation on social media.