"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to detect if the girl wants you to talk to her

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whir

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Lets say there is certain girl in your class room..and you only been in the same class for only a week..your not friends but you know each other..
and your doing the don juan proper behaviours and characters,,What is her simple actions that you can detect that she likes you and wants you to talk to her?...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I forgot to tell you guys..She is a shy type of girl or a proud girl..
and she wont give obvious points..
 

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How about start talking to her and see her reaction.

if all she does is reply to sometihng you ask her, this shows no interest, is you can hold a ocnversation, she wants to talk to you, which means there is at least a possibility of potential interest.
 

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whir said:
I forgot to tell you guys..She is a shy type of girl or a proud girl..
and she wont give obvious points..
How do you know she won't give obvious points? You aren't friends with her, so you CAN'T know what she will or won't do if she's interested in someone, right? Or, maybe you aren't doing the 'right' things to get her interested enough to let you know.

And even if you are giving the right 'juan proper behaviors and characters', it doesn't mean she'll respond, she may be involved with someone, or not interested in dating.

Don’t take any of this personally, I’m just trying to expand your field of vision.

Take check_mate's advice and 'talk' to her, then you will know for sure.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. As this is one of the most basic things covered in the DJ Bible, thread moved to DJD; closed.
 
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