"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to detect if the girl wants you to talk to her

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Lets say there is certain girl in your class room..and you only been in the same class for only a week..your not friends but you know each other..
and your doing the don juan proper behaviours and characters,,What is her simple actions that you can detect that she likes you and wants you to talk to her?...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I forgot to tell you guys..She is a shy type of girl or a proud girl..
and she wont give obvious points..
 
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How about start talking to her and see her reaction.

if all she does is reply to sometihng you ask her, this shows no interest, is you can hold a ocnversation, she wants to talk to you, which means there is at least a possibility of potential interest.
 
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whir said:
I forgot to tell you guys..She is a shy type of girl or a proud girl..
and she wont give obvious points..
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How do you know she won't give obvious points? You aren't friends with her, so you CAN'T know what she will or won't do if she's interested in someone, right? Or, maybe you aren't doing the 'right' things to get her interested enough to let you know.

And even if you are giving the right 'juan proper behaviors and characters', it doesn't mean she'll respond, she may be involved with someone, or not interested in dating.

Don’t take any of this personally, I’m just trying to expand your field of vision.

Take check_mate's advice and 'talk' to her, then you will know for sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. As this is one of the most basic things covered in the DJ Bible, thread moved to DJD; closed.
 
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