"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to detect if the girl wants you to talk to her

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Lets say there is certain girl in your class room..and you only been in the same class for only a week..your not friends but you know each other..
and your doing the don juan proper behaviours and characters,,What is her simple actions that you can detect that she likes you and wants you to talk to her?...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I forgot to tell you guys..She is a shy type of girl or a proud girl..
and she wont give obvious points..
 
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How about start talking to her and see her reaction.

if all she does is reply to sometihng you ask her, this shows no interest, is you can hold a ocnversation, she wants to talk to you, which means there is at least a possibility of potential interest.
 
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whir said:
I forgot to tell you guys..She is a shy type of girl or a proud girl..
and she wont give obvious points..
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How do you know she won't give obvious points? You aren't friends with her, so you CAN'T know what she will or won't do if she's interested in someone, right? Or, maybe you aren't doing the 'right' things to get her interested enough to let you know.

And even if you are giving the right 'juan proper behaviors and characters', it doesn't mean she'll respond, she may be involved with someone, or not interested in dating.

Don’t take any of this personally, I’m just trying to expand your field of vision.

Take check_mate's advice and 'talk' to her, then you will know for sure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. As this is one of the most basic things covered in the DJ Bible, thread moved to DJD; closed.
 
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