"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to deal with two potential plates at the same party?

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Basically I met both HBs roughly around the time a few weeks ago at different events. They both responded positively to my teasing and kino. However they both found excuses to my date suggestions later on. So I guess their ILs are not as high as I thought.

The interesting thing is that they will probably go to the same party that I am going to in a few days. So what's the best strategy I can apply at the party, focusing on one girl, giving both equal amount of attention, or ignoring both and gaming other HBs to make them jealous?

Thoughts pls? :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aaron B said:
ignore them both and game other girls right in front of them
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this is the correct answer.

or just talk to your boys and don't deal with either of them. but if you like one of them more than the other i would give that one more attention to try to get the other one to step her game up. but the worst thing you can do is try to kick it with one then kick it with the other at the same party. that's not going to work.
 
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Ok. I think I will just ignore both of them and game other girls right in front of them. If none of them steps her game up I will just next them both.
 
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one more question what if only one girl actually shows up at the party? still ignoring her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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one more question what if only one girl actually shows up at the party? still ignoring her?
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stll talk to other chicks so she can step up her game. but do say hi once in a while. giving her the cold shoulder might just piss her off.
 
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I used to specifically host parties to create this situation. You can take a bunch of girls with medium interest level and put them in the same room as you and create high interest level. I was always in host mode which meant I treated everyone equally, giving them a few minutes as I made sure everyone had a drink, etc. I never had time to talk to many people for long but never ignored anyone or bounced anyone. At the end of the night women would approach me and offering their numbers (and one would often stay over that night ad lib).
 
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