"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to deal with two potential plates at the same party?

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Basically I met both HBs roughly around the time a few weeks ago at different events. They both responded positively to my teasing and kino. However they both found excuses to my date suggestions later on. So I guess their ILs are not as high as I thought.

The interesting thing is that they will probably go to the same party that I am going to in a few days. So what's the best strategy I can apply at the party, focusing on one girl, giving both equal amount of attention, or ignoring both and gaming other HBs to make them jealous?

Thoughts pls? :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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Aaron B said:
ignore them both and game other girls right in front of them
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this is the correct answer.

or just talk to your boys and don't deal with either of them. but if you like one of them more than the other i would give that one more attention to try to get the other one to step her game up. but the worst thing you can do is try to kick it with one then kick it with the other at the same party. that's not going to work.
 
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Ok. I think I will just ignore both of them and game other girls right in front of them. If none of them steps her game up I will just next them both.
 
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one more question what if only one girl actually shows up at the party? still ignoring her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TopGun2000 said:
one more question what if only one girl actually shows up at the party? still ignoring her?
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stll talk to other chicks so she can step up her game. but do say hi once in a while. giving her the cold shoulder might just piss her off.
 
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I used to specifically host parties to create this situation. You can take a bunch of girls with medium interest level and put them in the same room as you and create high interest level. I was always in host mode which meant I treated everyone equally, giving them a few minutes as I made sure everyone had a drink, etc. I never had time to talk to many people for long but never ignored anyone or bounced anyone. At the end of the night women would approach me and offering their numbers (and one would often stay over that night ad lib).
 
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