"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to deal with their comments about us?

ARrocket

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I have a date to prom, and things are great there....no problems really.

The thing is, I have no idea how to effectively deal with questions from others. My date and I sit together in a class, and all the girls around us keep saying things like "awwww you two are so cute together" and "so are you two dating?" and "ARrocket has a crush" blah blah blah. I usually just ignore it, but apparently, I've been blushing every time. Curses...lol. This kind of thing has happened in the past, and I've used C&F to diffuse the situation, but with this girl...it doesn't seem right. You'll have to trust me on that one. How do you guys deal with this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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metalfan20

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It's just typical elementry style recations. Either tune it out or have fun with it.
 

Purple-Haze

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ARrocket said:
I have a date to prom, and things are great there....no problems really.

The thing is, I have no idea how to effectively deal with questions from others. My date and I sit together in a class, and all the girls around us keep saying things like "awwww you two are so cute together" and "so are you two dating?" and "ARrocket has a crush" blah blah blah. I usually just ignore it, but apparently, I've been blushing every time. Curses...lol. This kind of thing has happened in the past, and I've used C&F to diffuse the situation, but with this girl...it doesn't seem right. You'll have to trust me on that one. How do you guys deal with this?
You can always go over the top and declare, "yeah, we've already booked the chapel and have named our children." Then, roll your eyes and smile at her.
 

ARrocket

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Purple-Haze said:
You can always go over the top and declare, "yeah, we've already booked the chapel and have named our children." Then, roll your eyes and smile at her.
You, sir, are classic. Thank you.
 

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Just be honest. Are you two dating? Then say yes. If not, say no. This girl should be proud to show you off to her friends and not trying to keep things secret.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Groovy

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Someties to be funny is better then to be honest! :D

Just say something like: "Nah we two? We totaly hate each other." Sarcasticly and joking! And then mess with her (Poke, push, something).

Purple-Haze i'm stealing that one from you! :D
 

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if you like this chick, but aren't actually going out yet... a killer move I have done is to put your arm around them, but say "who, this grossy? no WAY would I date HER!" while squeezing her in tight.

mad skillz
 

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C+F is your best friend
 

Cry For Love

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experience on the field will cure the blushing problem and unsureness of what to say. we really cannot give you any specific on advice on smart ass comments or such because it wont solve the root of the problem, you need to get to the stage where you think stuff out yourself and dont have a problem with being in such situations
 
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