"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to deal with their comments about us?

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I have a date to prom, and things are great there....no problems really.

The thing is, I have no idea how to effectively deal with questions from others. My date and I sit together in a class, and all the girls around us keep saying things like "awwww you two are so cute together" and "so are you two dating?" and "ARrocket has a crush" blah blah blah. I usually just ignore it, but apparently, I've been blushing every time. Curses...lol. This kind of thing has happened in the past, and I've used C&F to diffuse the situation, but with this girl...it doesn't seem right. You'll have to trust me on that one. How do you guys deal with this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's just typical elementry style recations. Either tune it out or have fun with it.
 
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ARrocket said:
I have a date to prom, and things are great there....no problems really.

The thing is, I have no idea how to effectively deal with questions from others. My date and I sit together in a class, and all the girls around us keep saying things like "awwww you two are so cute together" and "so are you two dating?" and "ARrocket has a crush" blah blah blah. I usually just ignore it, but apparently, I've been blushing every time. Curses...lol. This kind of thing has happened in the past, and I've used C&F to diffuse the situation, but with this girl...it doesn't seem right. You'll have to trust me on that one. How do you guys deal with this?
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You can always go over the top and declare, "yeah, we've already booked the chapel and have named our children." Then, roll your eyes and smile at her.
 
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Purple-Haze said:
You can always go over the top and declare, "yeah, we've already booked the chapel and have named our children." Then, roll your eyes and smile at her.
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You, sir, are classic. Thank you.
 
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Just be honest. Are you two dating? Then say yes. If not, say no. This girl should be proud to show you off to her friends and not trying to keep things secret.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Someties to be funny is better then to be honest! :D

Just say something like: "Nah we two? We totaly hate each other." Sarcasticly and joking! And then mess with her (Poke, push, something).

Purple-Haze i'm stealing that one from you! :D
 
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if you like this chick, but aren't actually going out yet... a killer move I have done is to put your arm around them, but say "who, this grossy? no WAY would I date HER!" while squeezing her in tight.

mad skillz
 
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C+F is your best friend
 
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experience on the field will cure the blushing problem and unsureness of what to say. we really cannot give you any specific on advice on smart ass comments or such because it wont solve the root of the problem, you need to get to the stage where you think stuff out yourself and dont have a problem with being in such situations
 
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