"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to deal with their comments about us?

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ARrocket

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I have a date to prom, and things are great there....no problems really.

The thing is, I have no idea how to effectively deal with questions from others. My date and I sit together in a class, and all the girls around us keep saying things like "awwww you two are so cute together" and "so are you two dating?" and "ARrocket has a crush" blah blah blah. I usually just ignore it, but apparently, I've been blushing every time. Curses...lol. This kind of thing has happened in the past, and I've used C&F to diffuse the situation, but with this girl...it doesn't seem right. You'll have to trust me on that one. How do you guys deal with this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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metalfan20

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It's just typical elementry style recations. Either tune it out or have fun with it.
 
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ARrocket said:
I have a date to prom, and things are great there....no problems really.

The thing is, I have no idea how to effectively deal with questions from others. My date and I sit together in a class, and all the girls around us keep saying things like "awwww you two are so cute together" and "so are you two dating?" and "ARrocket has a crush" blah blah blah. I usually just ignore it, but apparently, I've been blushing every time. Curses...lol. This kind of thing has happened in the past, and I've used C&F to diffuse the situation, but with this girl...it doesn't seem right. You'll have to trust me on that one. How do you guys deal with this?
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You can always go over the top and declare, "yeah, we've already booked the chapel and have named our children." Then, roll your eyes and smile at her.
 
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Purple-Haze said:
You can always go over the top and declare, "yeah, we've already booked the chapel and have named our children." Then, roll your eyes and smile at her.
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You, sir, are classic. Thank you.
 
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Just be honest. Are you two dating? Then say yes. If not, say no. This girl should be proud to show you off to her friends and not trying to keep things secret.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Someties to be funny is better then to be honest! :D

Just say something like: "Nah we two? We totaly hate each other." Sarcasticly and joking! And then mess with her (Poke, push, something).

Purple-Haze i'm stealing that one from you! :D
 
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if you like this chick, but aren't actually going out yet... a killer move I have done is to put your arm around them, but say "who, this grossy? no WAY would I date HER!" while squeezing her in tight.

mad skillz
 
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C+F is your best friend
 
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Cry For Love

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experience on the field will cure the blushing problem and unsureness of what to say. we really cannot give you any specific on advice on smart ass comments or such because it wont solve the root of the problem, you need to get to the stage where you think stuff out yourself and dont have a problem with being in such situations
 
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